rules of the house

some rules

#1 no bitterness
it just poisons you inside. tempting but really you yourself are the only one to suffer. and yes, there will be suffering. bitterness is not good for mental health. you just have to get over things without bitterness, deal them somehow.

#2 no hate
again, it will affect your mental health in a negative manner. yea i dis things, people, i am pessimistic and what not. but hate takes too much of your energy and time, its useless to yourself. again, you yourself WILL suffer from feeling hate. just have to get rid of it. get over it. although its so easy...when someone seems to deserve it. its only your loss if you spend time and energy hating someone. it wont affect the one being hated. and if you spend time to affect their life, its again your time and energy. not worth it, considering you only have one life.

i sound like a hippie. but these are conclusions ive come to, over time. sounds crap and wuss and whatnot, but im serious, i will do everything to stay away from these emotions.